Thursday, August 5, 2010

MASKS OFF,BE YOURSELF

SHOW-OFF is the key word today...Hardly we find a person who conducts himself or herself the way he/she actually is. It is all about the so called STATUS or position(may be fake as well) what matters to an indvidual these days. Gone are those days when simplicity could win hearts.The world is changing for the worse. It has become more important to be in the limelight,no matter it may be because of some wrong reasons. SHOW-BIZZ is what strikes me here.
INTROSPECTION-analysing oneself in a true and required way is very important. We as human souls have to be pure and atleast honest to ourselves. However,its all the more contrary. We expect but do not give. We want others to change but how can we expect that if we dont do it to our ownselves first? For any revolution or a considerable change we require the change in us. What can we earn with a fake reputation? Just a mere temporary fame or few words of praise, which too is fake in itself. How about being original? The best way is to establish a position anywhere you go by the means of what you are and not by what others want you to be. Moreover god has chosen us for this precious gift-LIFE. So how can we go against his will and be what we actually aren't?
Thereby Introspection is must. One should know one's innerself and be crystal clear to his her/conscience. Afterall the first and foremost key to success is being a good and a true human being.
Inorder to conform to present-day societal norms, most of us hide our real ourselves and instead project a fake identity to gain acceptance in our respective peer groups. We have become impostors of the elites and often end up trying to conform to their requisite'styles and attitudes'. However,instead of simplifying our lives,these masks have only complicated matters. A contradiction between our true self and the other self ensues within,which may create disorder in life. Hence,it is always better to be one's real self rather than worrying about others. Afterall,a person true to himself gains respect everywhere.

2 comments:

  1. we, human beings have been engulfed by duplicacy n show off so badly tht theres no room of introspection left in our lives. if somehow we sit back n analyse ourselves, we may get depressed knowing our true state or may burn in jealousy. we seem to have forgotten the old sayings "SIMPLE LIVING N HIGH THINKING".

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  2. We can say introspection is the only way out. bt how many r actually ready to face their ownself? the choice is all ours . whether we want to become the person dat ppl want us to be or we want to stick to dat lil individual within us.but its sad to realise dat we ultimately end up murdering tht individual wich wants to bloom but is crushed even b4 it gets a chance to grow and dat too fr the sake of others.

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